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Harem: The World Behind the Veil PDF Print E-mail
Written by Sabre   
Sunday, 19 February 2012 22:24

This book was purchased and read because it was part of a recommended reading list I received from Donna Mejia after a talk she gave at 3rd Coast Tribal in January of 2012 “Fact vs Fiction: Dancers, Drummers and Women in the Pre-Islamic and Pre-Christian World"

The book is presented as the story of a woman (the author) who is out to discover the world of her recent ancestors.  There is basic info about harem hierarchy, social structure and customs and the history of a few powerful men and the women they were involved with but mostly this is a ‘harem primer’ about a particular harem in a particular culture and span of time.  In the last few pages of the book, the author tries to tie in other interesting ideas but they are an afterthought.

I found the book easy to read in part because I was familiar with almost all of the material presented - including the various ways a eunich is ‘created’ - and it would not shock me to learn that many women are as well, whatever their reading tastes may be.  There just wasn’t enough meat presented to be profound or even a little surprising.  I think the book would have been a better read had the author used the ideas she voices in the last few pages as the starting point of her research and gotten some needed help (say an anthropologist, historian and evolutionary biologist) to write that book – something that puts the material in to meaningful context.

I'm not sure why this book made the recommended reading list but if you are interested in reading it for yourself, used copies are inexpensive and there are lots of photographs of paintings that you might enjoy.


Last Updated on Sunday, 15 April 2012 16:33
 
Mom's Alterations PDF Print E-mail
Written by Sabre   
Monday, 23 January 2012 13:55

I purchased a cabaret style belly dance costume from a vendor in Egypt in 2010 and upon discovering that having it custom made did not mean 'ready to wear', I put it off to the side to be altered at a later date.  About a year later - October of 2011 - I found I was going to need to wear my bedlah for the upcoming Christmas show and asked about a seamstress who could do the alterations.  Several dancers in my class said to take my costume to Mom's Alterations in Arlington as they had experience with belly dance costumes, were inexpensive and had a turn around time of one week.

Sharon brought me to seem the seamstress before class on November 19th (Saturday) for alterations.  I met with "Mom" and  explained that I needed the costume back and ready to wear on the 29th (Tuesday).  I was fitted and she marked my set for alterations – a few hook and eye sets would need to be attached, the straps were to be attached to the back of my bra in an X, a bit of Velcro was to be added to the extra part of the belt (for the overlap) and the bra band was to be shortened.  She made noises that seemed to indicate that it would be a bit close to get it done on time but did not refuse to take on the project.  Sharon said she would pick up the set on the 29th and we left.

On the 29th, the seamstress was surprised to see Sharon picking up the set and fussed over the lack of a final fitting but asked Sharon to have me bring the set back in.  When I tried on the set, the only thing that had been done was the hook and eye sets (and they were not in the correct place)

No phone call was made to me and no voice mail was left that an additional fitting was needed or that the set was not going to be finished on time.  She also did not make any attempt to turn away my business or indicate that the set could not be finished when I needed it.  If she had a tight schedule, she could have charged a ‘rush’ fee or marked the alterations for me and had me alter one of the pieces myself while her shop fixed the other but none of these things happened.  Despite the urging of others, I made the needed alterations to make the set wearable for performance rather than return to the shop for them to finish the set for me.  I know others have had good experiences with this shop (it is how I was referred to them after all) but my experience was quite different and based on my own experience, I am unable to recommend them.

 
Painted Lady Clothier PDF Print E-mail
Written by Sabre   
Sunday, 15 January 2012 14:41

This is a vendor I found on Tribe.net as Fraya would make posts on some of the tribes that she had new things for sale in her Etsy store.  I decided to take a look to see what all she had for offer since I was feeling a bit uneasy about my purchase from Aurelia's Regalia (see review on LARP Resources) and I ended up purchasing a set – pantaloons, skirt, entari and ghawazee coat w/ free head wrap – and a lace skirt on Feb 6th.  When I placed the order with Freya, she said that she was moving and finishing up a few projects but that she should have the set by the beginning of March.  I let her know that I didn't need to have it in hand until the beginning of April and she said this would give her time to give my order extra attention and promised to send photos as she made progress on my new set.

On March 10th, with no word from Fraya and no photos or costume, I sent a message to find out how my costume was coming along.  She replied on March 13th that she hoped to start on in by the 15th.  On April 2nd, I got a message from her asking about skirt length which I had sent back in February when I placed my order, and said she hoped to have my order in the mail by the 11th and asked it I needed it before the 15th.  I asked her to let me know if the set was going to be to me on time because if not I needed to put something else together.  She told me she would get to work on it and send photos so I could see how my set was coming along and thanked me for my patience.

On April 7th, she sent word that because she had tried to rush to get things done, mistakes had been made and that my set would not get to me on time.  She apologized and assured me that her perfectionist nature would result in a set that I would be thrilled with.  On April 26th, I tried to check with her again about my order in the hopes that this set would get to make at least one showing for the faire season and on April 27th I received word she was starting on it.  April 29th she again asked about the skirt length and I sent it to her for a third time.   May 14th Fraya messaged me to let me know that she thought she could have all orders out by the 31st and that she'd had 218 orders come in over her move.   June 10th I tried to inquire about my set but got no reply.  July 3rd, I received word that she was finishing up most of my order and that it was finally about to ship.  Most of my order finally arrived in late July with the entari arriving in late August (Yaa Halla weekend).

Pantaloons – were not as full as pictured

Skirt – was almost not dyed both colors (something I paid extra for)  Very full but after one washing, it looking a little frayed at the hem and a few of the stitches appear to be loose on the tiers.  There were small green spots on the blue top part that while easy to hide with a hip scarf were still disappointing to see

Entari – ordered it in ivory and it is white.   I also don’t remember requesting large, primitive wooden buttons for this piece but they are there and I do not like the way they look with the delicate, semi sheer fabric.  I plan to remove them and sew the front of the garment closed.

Ghawazee coat – Does not fit.  I don’t know if it’s because the buttons are too big for the button holes, because she thought she was making it lace up and when she sent me a message to verify the closure type she found out it was to button up (the holes are at the edge of the garment), the large buttons on the entari take up too much space under the coat or if she just cut the wrong size but my ghawazee coat will not button across the bust (and is difficult to button the other buttons) It might fit after I remove the large buttons on the entari but I can't say for certain.  If it does not, I will either need to alter or sell it (and I will need experienced help to alter)

Lace skirt – not as full as it looked in the photos.  It has not been worn or washed yet and I hope does not have the same issue as the dyed skirt

Head wrap – no issues

The issue of not fitting as full as pictured isn’t a big deal (except for the tardiness) but the rest is pretty disappointing.  For me, it’s worse that I got excuses and thanked for my patience when she chose to communicate at all (most of the time, she was silent)  rather than my costume on time.  I think I would find it easier to forgive a few of these things if my order had arrived early or on time but over 3 months late makes it completely unpalatable.  I understand that she moved to a new state and that she has a full time job but that did not deter her from taking orders while preparing to move, during her move and while trying to settle in to a new place.  She always had the option of cutting off orders (I thought when I ordered in February that I was probably just in under the wire for cut off), offering a refund & cancellation to clear out the back log or of hiring help to get the orders taken care of.  I am very disappointed in my experience with Painted Lady Clothier and cannot recommend her to anyone, no matter how long you feel you can wait for your order to arrive

Note: As of 1/15/2012 Fraya does not have a working Etsy store.  Her Facebook page for Painted Lady Clothier has not been updated since August 29, 2011 and comments show that people are still waiting for their orders to be filled

Last Updated on Sunday, 15 January 2012 15:46
 
Made Up PDF Print E-mail
Written by Sabre   
Sunday, 19 February 2012 21:34

Made Up is an iPhone application by Lauren Luke (known on YouTube as panacea81) and features make up tutorials.  It launched in April 2011 and is developed by Oilslick and at launch, it cost $4.99.

The app launched with a few tutorials and the promise of more on the way and while more have been added, they are slow to hit.  The tutorials on the app are better quality than what regular YouTube viewers are used to which is probably why they don't update as fast though you think they'd have a system where they shot a bunch of looks over a short time and then released them on a schedule (and then met again before the last one 'in the can' was to be released so they could get new ones shot and in the queue for release).

There is also a 'game' of sorts in the application - you can scroll thru the photos on your iPhone and based on the ones you pick, the app suggests a 'look' for you.

When the app first launched, tutorials were stored on the iPhone but an update changed it so that when a user accessed a tutorial the app would use signal to go out and retrieve it.

The application seems like a good idea and I purchased it at release to have access to Ms Luke's tutorials should I need them in the dressing room but with content so slow to come out and the need for a good signal to access the tutorials, I think you are better off just bookmarking her YouTube channel.

 
Synari Designs PDF Print E-mail
Written by Sabre   
Tuesday, 18 October 2011 18:32

My first Synari Designs purchase was in September of 2006.  I had purchased a hand painted, tribal fusion style belt with kuchi accents on eBay and had no idea how to make a proper bra to compliment my new piece.  I was familiar with Synari thru her posts on Tribe (we belonged to some of the same groups there) so I approached her about making a custom bra for my belt.  After some emailing back and forth to get an idea of what I had in mind, she went to work and created a stunning piece of art to compliment my belt.  It fit well, was unlike anything I had seen for sale anywhere and drew attention and compliments whenever I wore it.

To date, I own nine sets made by Synari (and plan to contact her about a tenth in December).  Each is an amazing, one of a kind creation that is instantly recognizable as not being mass produced by a costume house but meticulously handmade for me.   I know that whenever I wear one of her beautiful costumes, I will not blend in with other dancers, will get plenty of attention when I wear it and that it will fit me properly.

Though she will tell you she is not a professional costumer, Synari is a joy to work with.  When you contact her about a custom costume, she will get an idea of what you want and set about providing you with an elegant piece or set.  She is great about communicating with you thru the entire process so you always know what the status of your costume is and she can even handle troupe orders.  Since Synari specializes in one of a kind costumes, you will not see your costume on another dancer.

Synari is kind person, talented costumer and my gold standard for custom work!

 

Want your own Synari Designs custom costume?  Just go to the link section and find the link to her Etsy store.

 

 

 

 

 

 
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